| Many people have so many problems that they are creating for themselves in their relationships and it is nobody to blame but themselves, since insecurity is having here a big influence. When a woman or a man love themselves, they will love their partners in a relationship and will not let their partners manipulate them or take advantage of them later on. Each person should be in control of their life and should let the partner know the way they feel and the way they would like to be treated, by being honest in a beginning while they are still dating. For example; if a woman is not a good cook or does not clean good, she should be honest to her partner about it and tell her partner that she want to be treated well in a relationship regardless how she cooks or cleans.Otherwise, it is a situation of stay with me or leave me. If a man has someone who he wants to see from his past, let's say it is his 1st ex-girlfriend that he never had sexual relationship with and all he felt for her was a plutonic love (pure love) and they had a nice plutonic relationship- he should be honest to his current girlfriend or a wife and should not let her control him- with whom he should be friends and whom he should stay away from, since he wants to be friends with his first ex-girlfriend.If his current wife is envious and/ or does not trust him, then most likely this relationship will not work and most likely it may lead to a divorce. If she tells him the rules that she will leave him, then he should let her know that he does not care about it-he will do what he feels is right for him and for her.Again, if she accepts this situation , then she will not rule his life and peacefully decide whether she wants to stay or leave.He should stand up for himself and love himself here. What I would suggest to you is not to get depressed if you have a similar cases in life then just go to Pokrov Association. We will help you to return your best friend. |