| For some people happiness is money, for others happiness is power or love. It can be different things. However, to find out what truly makes you happy in life is the same as to find out yourself in life, your values and what you worth. If you do not know who you really are, nothing in a world that you would try-will makes you happy. For instance, many guys are very unhappy in life. They cannot find the right girl for themselves. They tend to sleep with other girls and get many STD's and this are the results from that they do not know who they really are. They might be lazy to do this since childhood and this happens out of selfishness and " no time to do these things". Therefore, to see your happiness and be really happy you must find your time to get it by exploring more about yourself.You also, must learn to accept yourself for who you truly are and if you do- you will have no problems accepting others for who they truly are. For example, what do you like about certain things and what do not you like about certain things? Make sure you watch your character and behavior to see what others do not like in you and what they like in you. Also, make sure that you care about others and the world that surrounds you, so your interests in life will increase to do more things that would create a happiness for you.In addition, to accept yourself for who you truly are and others, you must change your negative characters- such as maybe judging, calling average people ugly, to stop being conceited and proud, learning to be nice and friendly towards others who are around you, do not be revengeful, do not wish or do anything bad , do not be jealous and envy of anyone or anything, stop being pessimistic and learn to give towards other businesses. For example, if you are attending a business that gives you services and intuition tells you that this business will help you, then do not say that you don't have money to pay and you want for free, if you really do have money to pay - otherwise people will not pay towards your business in future or it may be hard for you to find a better job.Even if it is hard for you financially - you think that you can get it cheaper, but it is not possible- think it as you have to borrow or get money from somewhere in order to pay for this service. Never take away anyone's husband or wife and never break any families- because it may come back to you in another life. Don't even try to do it! Also, you must love yourself and value yourself for whom you are and never take things for granted. |